The Fear of Motherhood

“I am so Happy”. “I want to be a mother”. “Will, I be a good mother”. All these thoughts come to mother-to-be, no matter if it is planned or not. Remember this we all learn to become parents. It is not a given or perfect arrangement. We all learn as we go. However, it can be fearful of the unknown. Babies are cute, loving and a joy. It takes patience!

Motherhood is a special title for us ladies, most of us were built for the journey. When most of us get the confirmation that we are pregnant, the glow begins to shine. (“I am so Happy”) Then, we prepare, throughout the months, we get advice from our mother’s, aunt’s, grandmother’s and others. As the months get closer and the responsibilities are becoming more realistic. The thoughts of how many adjustments has to be made for yourself from being alone and no care in the world because it is just you. But reality hits, soon it will be another person in your life that you will be responsible for, and all has to be centered around your new addition. You begin to think, not wanting to stop being as active in your stuff. (“I want to be a mother”) The adjustments will alter, making a schedule, getting a routine will take a while, selfishness will appear and needing to catch your breath will surely come and tears will flow. You love your baby, and this is new. (“Will, I be a good mother”). Develop your plan before delivery, take childbirth/parenting classes, support for yourself (family and friends). Look for a doula!